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Following the occupation of the Japanese invaders after the Northeast, but also the invasion of North China ready to launch a comprehensive war against China, the Chinese disaster of imminent doom. The Chiang Kai-shek still insists that "stabbing outside Home Safe," the destruction of the Communists policy.

December 4, 1936, he was with from the Luoyang to Xi'an Huaqing Pool for the Hang Yuan, personally took the Northeast Army and Northwest urge the military generals Zhang Xueliang and Yang attack the Red Army, while the Central Army assignment to Tongguan main area of Zhang and Yang's army soldier formation arrives trend.
After Chiang Kai-Xian Zhang, Yang Jiang's residence several times to the Huaqing Hot Springs, to his bitter admonition to stop the destruction of the Communists against Japan but all were consistent Chiang reprimand!

Zhang, Yang decided to implement the soldiers remonstrance. 12 am, when Zhang's guards captured after hiding in Lishan tiger stone Chiang Kai-shek, and the arrest of Yang's men arrived with Chiang says Chen, Shan, Jiang Dingwen, Wei Lihuang and other important officials. The outbreak of the Xi'an Incident, shocked the world.
Subsequently, the Chiang Kai-shek sent escorted appeasing the Office Park Building, Xi'an, and later moved Zhang mansion. Jiang was detained during the one day write: send his wife Soong Mei, Chiang Ching-kuo and Chiang Wei two children and three national national Wills.

It is well known when Chiang Kai-shek in the Xi'an Incident was a suicide note, but nobody ever saw. Even in April 2004, the Hoover Institution, Stanford University archives, open to the public's "Diary of TV Soong of the Xi'an Incident", which although mentioned suicide note, but gave no details.

Today, according to Chiang Kai-shek Chiang Fang Zhiyi Sun Xi, stored in Stanford University's Hoover Institution archives, "Chiang Kai-shek Diaries" (1945 copies of the diary has been opened before), will as follows:

[To the Song Meiling]

Good wife love KAM: Brother is not self-test beam, also lost their ominous calamity, resulting beloved sad, what to speak of the crime. As matters stand today, only worthy of the husband of my wife, is also worthy of my Prime Minister and Wufuwumu negative life education so as to clean the body must also my husband, so the only God worthy of the gods are not ashamed not only negative.

Do not miss the family, but by the State and Weiguo two children are all brother's son, that my wife and son; million expected treat has been a favorite, to comfort my soul. The children from ten years of its recent nature is not known how the brothers solid; but Wei Yi know their children will be able to Shiko grams filial.
He was still the day before my distress letter, eager to do their filial piety is also my favorite. He is currently stationed in Berlin Embassy of communication can be transferred, even looking I loved to go for the feeling of power to comfort.

Twenty-five years on December 20 CKS

[To the Chiang Ching-kuo, Chiang Wei]

Well then warp and two children: I was born not only for the revolution, since when the die for the revolution, and even look for my two children son worthy of it. Only Miss Song of my life for my wife only if you think I own son, then Miss Song that is only the mother of two children. After I die, no matter when, are required to your mother Miss Song of the orders, to comfort my soul. Belongs.

Father December 20

[Report National National]

CKS could not for the country home of the simplified line weight, so seize the opportunity to incite his troops still serving reactionaries has changed. This thing now, not to the party on the country, not to the people under, only one death reported that party-state were reported to me the people of the revolutionary party worthy of it!
After my death, Chinese righteousness trusted by death, and the revival of the Chinese nation from one end of a day following. The Chiang Kai-shek could self-confidence, so Heaven's Soldiers calmly, without the Jinian.
"But looking fellow for the National Day of Peace by the Ming Chiang told the creed":

1, out of propriety and justice; 2, known shame; 3, responsible; 4, discipline, observe and implement all of, the Chiang Kai-shek lived and died despite the crisis in China will be safe, do not look to the life and death, while Chiang Kai-shek personal concerns also.

Long live the Republic! Long live the Chinese Nationalist Party! Three People's Principles Hooray! National Government Hooray! Long live the National Revolutionary Army!

Chiang Kai-shek

The will, written in 1936, though December 20
Day, but at the time of the diary is not recorded but recorded in the second anniversary of the Xi'an Incident, which on Dec. 13, 1938 and December 20.

Chiang Kai-shek's diary at 13, wrote: [The date picked was two years ago sent his wife and two in Xi'an, son of wills, Reading can not help feeling there Geshi of this special record. ]

Cloud in the 20's diary: [twenty-five years on December 20 when the reported distress in Xi'an nationals will, recorded in the special. ]

In addition, the December 15 letter Chiang Kai-shek a letter to the Feng Kai-shek ordered along with Donald (British Australians, Chiang Kai-shek's advisor), together Xi'an to know the truth, but also won the trust of Huangren Lin Kai-shek and Chiang Kai-shek forward. This letter and the contents of the first two will almost the same, which actually means a will, recorded the following:

[To the Song Meiling]

Brother must sacrifice for the country, as I hope not to have concerns, I decided more than worthy of the wife of her husband, also deserves to be Prime Minister of the believers. I was born not only for the revolution, since when the die for the revolution, will be to clean the world body to return my parents!

The family said he was not, but by the State and Weiguo more than two children not only as the son, which is more than his wife's son, works hope I treat his wife has been out for more than spiritual comfort only. But more than his wife not to come to Shaanxi.

(Chiang Kai-shek diaries, December 15, 1936)

Chiang Kai-shek's letter was detained Zhang, Huang Renlin been allowed to stay back to Shaanxi, Nanjing. Jiang's three wills in the 20th, to a private capacity to transmit Xi'an contact Soong Meiling, but also Zhang deductions!

Soong diary note being to cloud: [I was 11 again to meet with chairman, he pay me a few letters addressed sub-national, Madame Chiang and their two sons Will and Testament, and to me these few lines will look to Hanqing. (Zhang withheld will, that in the event of war, his personality will ensure that these will send, but now he will not be allowed to send.)]
("Diary of the Xi'an Incident, Soong," December 21, 1936, according to Mr Zhang Junyi "Exemplary" No. 7, 2004)
There are differences:

1, Chiang Kai-shek TV Soong will pay date. Chiang diary is December 20, Soong diary system on December 21, exactly who is in outstanding research.

Second, testament to the time Soong, Soong diary for the day when his second see Chiang Kai-shek, Chiang diary is in the Song, Chiang began to talk before the first turn will pay the Song Song Meiling.

Chiang's diary goes: [sub-Man Nai Ming Zhang and Donald go, Er Bi alone and I talk. I will pay first he, his wife also belonged to more than forward. ]

Soong arrived in Xian and Zhang after the first conversation, and then and see Jiang Zhang and Donald together, because Chiang Kai-shek sent a letter to see a sobbing emotional excitement speechless, Soong Chang and Donald go is indicated by its own separate talks with Jiang.

3, Chiang diaries did not account for Soong to read testamentary to Zhang.

Chiang Kai-shek and the two sons to a will, there are four important elements.

First, for reasons of his own had been detained, resulting in Kai-shek to worry, blame themselves.

Second, he is ready to die, never surrender to Zhang.

Third, I hope his death, Soong Mei tidings good to cut off nearly a decade, far away in the Soviet Union in Berlin, Germany Chiang Ching-kuo and Chiang Wei has been a treat.

Fourth, told Chiang Ching-kuo, Chiang Wei, Kai-shek after his death on Filial Piety: [if you think I'm the son of self, only then is your mother Song Meiling, "Whenever, are required to the order of your mother Miss Song is from.] Distress the occasion, Chiang Kai-shek care arrangements for his wife and two sons, the family, but also human.

Notice of the country in the national will, the Chiang Kai-shek's responsibility to review the Xi'an Incident took place in his own: [to the party is no country, not to the people under], determined to die compensation.

At the same time, I hope our compatriots after his death, and implement it stands for strict doctrine: [out of propriety and justice, knowing sense of honor, responsibility, discipline]. He believed that one day the Chinese people must have revival.

decrypt: Xi'an Incident when Chiang Kai-shek three will
Spirit, did not stop

Mao Zedong and his most hated

Soviet Communist Party in 1956 had shocked the world top 20. 20 of the important contents of the Soviet Communist Party is no Stalin opened the door. 1924 Stalin took over the leadership from Lenin to the death in 1953, nearly 30 years in the Soviet Union Shuoyibuer, authoritative figure. Stalin's accelerated industrialization and the fight against the Soviet victory over Nazi Germany in his life everlasting glory; Stalin in the party engaged in brutal combat, destroy the body, the personality cult and the suppression of the democratization process, but also his crimes. His grievances are many within the party alive, but no one dared to fight him any, have had to falsely praise him with disgusting words. However, when Stalin died, it not up to him.

Stalin's death three years after the Soviet Union only 20 major criticism of Stalin, and Stalin made a large number of miscarriages of justice to turn over. To 22 in 1961, Soviet big outside party has been fighting against the brutal era of Stalin hated. As Soviet leader Nikita Khrushchev, Stalin's central figure is critical, in 22 large on the whole socialist camp through a breathtaking resolution:
"The General Assembly continue to keep that in Lenin about. Victoria. Stalin's Crystal Palace is not appropriate, because Stalin serious violation of the teachings of Lenin, abuse of power, large-scale repression of the Soviet people of integrity, and other acts of personal worship time to his coffin in Eph. Iraq. Lenin in the impossible. "
Soon, Stalin's body was pulled from the Lenin Mausoleum Crematorium burned.
In fact, Stalin was cremated and the resolution of Soviet make, rather than a person's intention of Khrushchev - Stalin also dug their own grave before his death.
The move caused Chinese leaders Mao Zedong, the greatest resentment. Since then, Mao Zedong, Nikita Khrushchev became the worst person in the eyes. After the Sino-Soviet relations in the top 20 early on the sharp decline, causing the withdrawal of all Soviet experts, so as far-left line to the Chinese economy's difficulties. 22 large, the Sino-Soviet polemics round the CPC Central Committee issued the "Nine Commentaries" is written under the command of Mao Zedong himself, the agitation of people's words directed at Khrushchev, and Khrushchev to tell your mortgage, dug out alive when Khrushchev had Stalin in Red Square loudly chanting "Stalin is the biological father," while Stalin's death was Bianshi. "Nine Commentaries" very angry and said: Stalin, Khrushchev can crematorium dust, but Stalin, Khrushchev never to erase from the minds of the Soviet people.
Khrushchev, Mao Zedong Alignment shelling, not how much gratitude Stalin. Mao Zedong, the chauvinism of Stalin already fed up with the Chinese Communists are still hard struggle, Stalin did not fully support, even suggested that the PLA should not hit the south of Yangtze River, China to North-South divide. This is also the Stalin feared that a strong and unified China. Mao Zedong did not listen to Stalin, in his poems that "wind and rain from Cang Huang Zhong Shan, millions of bold warriors crossing the river ... ... should be left to recover tottering foe, can not sell Learn From the Overlord". In the few months after the liberation of the whole of China, Mao Zedong to the Soviet Union, Stalin did not think the arrogance of the station did not actually meet, nor was talking seriously and Mao Zedong, Mao Zedong was deeply lonely and unhappy in Moscow.
But Khrushchev to Stalin's body removed from Lenin in cremation and allows another perspective on Mao Zedong and Stalin. Because the Soviet leader Stalin 30 years after all, still alive enjoy the support of the whole party and sincere praise, but were crematorium after the death of dust. Mao appears, Khrushchev so good words spoken in the leader after the death of his lifetime Bianshi critical are full of two-faced, ambitious, must be brought to his high degree of vigilance.

Mao Zedong and his most hated

Mao Zedong and Khrushchev

Quest: Why the Ming Dynasty popular pornography?

In Chinese history, the Ming dynasty is a very interesting. In that dynasty, there is better things this is the opposite, it can be safely wrapped in a large robe known as the Ming Dynasty in Xiangan meet.
After the Ming Emperor Throne stable, they put the Sung Dynasty, "investigation of things" out of Neo-Confucianism - Neo enshrined Domination of the place. Ming Yongle Raozhou Confucian Zhuji You to the "Week, Cheng Zhang, Zhu" put a little different views, be regarded as academic discussion, Yongle Emperor learned of Longyan furious, decreed that the "sound of the crime life Yuji rod removal, note burning their Writing, and said: 'correct posterity.' "Zhu Di of the Ming and Qing dynasties sentence will be opened to expel heresy ban Neo precedent, Confucianism became the only learning from the other have become heresy be banned ("banned literary inquisition," Wang Bin with the Chinese workers Press). The Ming imperial "syllabus" requirement is more stringent, must be scheduled by Zhu Xi's "Four Books" in the title, their understanding and use of Neo must follow the Explanatory Note.
"Syllabus" seems insignificant, but the baton, but a strong, direct and regulate the scholars it is our mind, then control the social ideas and concepts. Therefore, in the Ming dynasty, the idea is to guide the movement of people to talk about "preserving the natural, human desire," Science-based. Now wanted to come to this idea is somewhat absurd, Desire How can it be to destroy it? Although the ancient sages said "no desire is just," but people should really not a desire, not what kind of ideas, and that results do not "just", the opposite might be a too-soft soft, spit into his face certainly so it will get rid of their own. Of course, if it is to thoroughly consider this "one deposit, one off" theory, and is pretty full of romantic idealism, the human desire to exterminate all, just keep a "justice" in mind, it can be it is really one world! Perhaps for that reason, the Ming theorists continue to expand and dig in the "heavenly principle and human desires," the profound meaning, social managers, that is, officials herders, it is well to the theorists research into the social rules, shepherding the surname million subjects.
In such a dynasty, the stress is physical, is also used in science, then the air may also be filled with the breath of Science, art and nature can not simply "Art for Art", detached known to the world outside, but also must be thought of Science under the guidance of literature and art, is promoting the physical essence of the art. However, very strange things, but why is this "Passion" of the Ming Dynasty, but there is a large number of pornographic literature and became popular in the literature, but also appeared in pornographic paintings that erotic art.
Quest: Why the Ming Dynasty popular pornography?

With China's first "erotic novel," said the "Golden Lotus" and now has been the artistic recognition, but the wide spread pornography, the impact on later literature of which is that no novel can be compared with compared, in contemporary, Jia's "Deserted City" can see it in shadow. In addition, now can see, create, graphic, erotic novels are popular in the Ming Dynasty "cut Lantern", "Happy Lovers", "Yichun incense quality", "Ruyi Kwan Biography," "Love Story" and the "girl next door Emperor" and 12 of three. These works, no matter how creative theme, but there are numerous, explicit "bedroom scene." In addition, those who are more obscure but still describe Nannvzhiqing based Romances, even more is a little more difficult to count. In addition to writing the things, the emergence of the Ming dynasty erotic art and pop, but also no less than pornography, according to research scholar Robert van Gulik, the Ming Dynasty of erotic art in its prime, the printing using a five-color printing, the level of high, the screen beauty has stunning ("Sexual Culture in Ancient China," Liu Dalin a). The pornography, four or five hundred years later today we can still see the demonstration of the print run was as much popularity Sheng.
Quest: Why the Ming Dynasty popular pornography?

Sex, nature is to promote lust, but lust is another really great people want to have. The counter of the mainstream culture Ming sang "preserving the natural, human desire," the high profile, but behind it is to promote the popular desire for pornography. Although destroyed when subjected to burn books banned version can be one or another of a pornographic novel and popular emerging. At the same piece of sky, and in theory has something contrary to it not a bit bizarre Why?
This is probably from the Confucian scholar talking about the living condition and environment.
We know that Ming is a torture method in the era of cool, since the day of the Throne sat the emperor, the emperor Pianjiang tightly gripping the world's power in the hands, with supreme authority. The founding prime minister when the post is there, but set a few years, the emperor felt "under one person," and a "people over" person, heart some ease, so they set up a "conspiracy" in charges, the Prime Minister a month have killed the, and has since set the rules, Wilson set up the world never again post of prime minister, was this, he became the country house rules and training, and no one ever dared to propose to restore. Wanli, Zhang despite the fact the prime minister is hardly the name of the Prime Minister. Thus, throughout the Ming period, although there have been "eunuch excesses", "castrato good at politics", the dynasties confused utter confusion, hard times, but nobody dared to propose re-established prime minister, to help manage a vast empire the emperor. The middle of the Ming emperor, following an over, because he said his biological parents for the overlord and the Empress Dowager, courtier who rallied together to oppose, the emperor no longer be so angry towards a meeting with his ministers, the time up to twelve years long, with Bo Yang's words, when the Ming dynasty, became a dynasty without a head. Is that kind of situation, no one dare Empire courtiers are unnatural, we can see when Confucians their quite satisfactory.
The scholars of the Ming Dynasty Confucians is so, about two reasons, one is their childhood, their education is "loyalty to the emperor Paul

Country ", even if it is a darn idiot sitting on the Throne, a stomach poetry of courtiers who bow down to him should be kowtowing. Mencius said:" people are the king light the boat followed. "Warned the people believe in his doctrine of loyalty is important, but if the confused times of hardship, you may no monarch can be loyal, and to remind them of how to appreciate the little feelings, for people who survive. Unfortunately, in the Ming Dynasty, a scholar who read of "Mencius" a book is an abridged the Imperial, Xu Min, then the people who protect all deleted it off, leaving only the loyal master their lives. Another reason is the butcher's knife under the Gateway service. set the country shortly after the Ming Dynasty, the emperor will be slaughter, fear the main contributor to their success and higher coverage, worrying about their children and grandchildren after his death subdue not live them, then in his 20 years in power between the hero to conquer the world with him who killed the most, and are Manmenchaozhan with the sure way not spare even his students Gujiao. side to kill hero, one side is killed Confucian scholars. poetry fuss, those who violated the taboo of the emperor, "light, thieves, the" other words, all kill, not to mention the other. His son, Zhu Di Four hands grabbed the world from the nephew after he went on to kill a while, which only "reading seed" Fang Xiaoru case, and they killed eight hundred people. in the founding After several decades, the way father and son are killed off, cut off the head can not be total victory, most of them scholars of Confucian scholars. Faced with this reality, who are willing to put their head and king kidding? a result, the bloody head, Wei served 200 years of scholar bile.
When the Song Dynasty, scholars have not make it on Korea to an official of the single-plank bridge, you can also do scholarship, get a get what "Confucianism" and the like, have their own originality can be released out, but in the Ming Dynasty, "Science" Royal Imperial has become the "truth", do not need scholars who go mindless, engaging in any theoretical innovation, so, in the Song can do then they can not go on a scholarship. Although the late Ming Li Zhi, xi, Tang Zhen a class of scholars, proposed the "Innocence" and "On the" said it became obvious that these doctrines have also been learning, became the object of research scholars, but at the time is typical of the "implicit learning" and "underground scholars", the results of those studies are out of sneak out is to write the book also had to use the "Childlike", "hidden books" in the name of, dare not openly published.
No open scholarship, Imperial's roads are narrow too scary, a scholar who would also like to eat, but also support their families, is to do still need a little money Libertine, so they had to actively look for another way to keep alive the other.

In the Ming Dynasty in the late Middle and Lower Yangtze area, business has been stronger sense of the breath, after the economic boom there are some rich idlers another literate, so the publishing industry will be followed up and developed. Booksellers have to make money, scholars have to eat, people with spare cash to be comfortable, popular literature have appeared and become popular, too popular to be in a long time, the flow of the pornography, because "bed undertaking of literature," the best hit the human desire , the most best seller. Therefore, if there pornography, soon to a "best-selling book" The rating, which is naturally a matter of course.
In these pornographic literature, to attract the reader's "bed action" is a heavy head but also more or less a scholar entrusted their dreams. In a book about sex in the Ming and Qing Dynasty novel "Dance Flower Yin", the scholar can be a little glimpse of their thoughts. The book was a scholar, several women engaged in a row. He side deal with a few women among the side went under Section field, the results of the examination was fame, to which five women were all married home, surrounded by beauty, promotion rich and happy immortality. Scholar's dream of doing beautiful very round, very gentle, unfortunately most of a dream.
Liu Dalin in the "Ancient Chinese Sex Culture," in talking about the reasons for the Prosperity of the Ming Dynasty pornography, said that one of the Ming Dynasty emperors dissolute excesses, the officials also eat aphrodisiac Daxing wind, played a leading role. There is also criticism of those in power means that they promote "Science" that they do not practice "Natural." For this reason of course is yes, the "official Germany" demonstration effect is great. But I can not think, take a look at the history of China before the Ming Dynasty, the emperor of a dynasty there which is not Sannomiya six homes, concubines clouds, licentious unrestrained it? Which is not to say, a third official wife of four concubines? But not in time to drive out pornography.
Two seasons in Ming and Qing dynasties, is a very popular literary inquisition. However, the research of these writers, will find these cases, no one is that created prosperity by pornography, even if the reasons in this regard, it is not pure. This can not but say that is a very peculiar historical phenomenon. I think about politicians view, popular pornography, although immoral, threatening the moral, not whether, but not Yigai ban, as against the study of history, exposing weaknesses Royal historian, and scholars discuss affairs of state so harsh, after catch should the author, bookseller behead, burn writing, printing plates destroyed. Of course, pornography investigation is to investigate, but only make it look it. The reason is that politicians know that the wise man's mind onto a woman who, no doubt pondering than let the structure and production method Throne better. The late Ming Dynasty, Li Zhi for the public his "theory of children", it had died Zhao Yu. But at the same time with the "sex writer" who would not be treated as such. So, if this conjecture is true, this may also be prosperous Ming pornography objective reasons. The look after the Qing Ming, Wen network is still extremely tight, but pornography is in particular further, then how much proof of this conjecture is not bad.
From this perspective, the rise of the Ming Dynasty pornography, one side is normal academic disappeared, nowhere can a scholar mind they had to play up to the woman's body; side is the emergence of the cultural market, to provide the external conditions of literary communication , the student can discuss this point of life which is not starved to death, booksellers are also happy to send a little money. The government does, then they opened and closed to acquiescence. As for the "heavenly principle and human desires," the truth, to sing this time had become a high profile, because when people first priority is to succeed, after all, men and women want to diet.
In this world, there are two things most can erode away the human spirit, the same money as the saying goes Money talks, money can yield devils, stomach filled with the desire of living even mention the What kind of spirit of the indomitable before money may be lost in hardness; another thing that is sensual, alert advising people to use pornography and woman in the poem, we can know that feminine extreme: "Erbajiaren body, such as cakes, waist room with a sword cut Yufu, clearly not see the head off, covertly JJ marrow marrow. "Thirty-Six, the honey trap is still time-tested show. According to reports, Americans in questioning Iraqi prisoners of war, the face of his mind filled with the "doctrine of" soldiers, more effective recourse is honey trap. So, if people want to while away the spirit of faith and pursue, as long as these two things can be released, and it means to be open by money, fetched the money went to the woman's breast to enjoy, this way, what kind of spirit of the soldiers are no longer there.
However, the erosion of the human spirit out of the price is enormous. The last emperor of the Ming Dynasty had a thorough understanding about it, when Li Zi Cheng's team to the capital, usually around the Chongzhen those around the table every day with the generals were loyal to the Confucians, then all ran without a trace, leaving only Watching the one under the trees he has completed one of life's final journey into a true "loner." This, is the Ming Dynasty and lust prevail, people flashy about it? I think this might be a proposition worthy of it.
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Ming left the first erotic artist snowster "Yan map"
Ming and Qing secret possession of erotic boudoir art
Ming Dynasty boudoir hoard of erotic art

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derailed the spirit of a man Whose Fault

In either form of marriage among the derailment is a serious injury on the partner, this point is beyond doubt. Which man is more worth it derail you to saved? Some people think that is the spirit of the derailment, because in a sense, mental derailment of behavior more than in other pools, sufficient to show that the men's self-control, saying in a "lower body of a man can use upper body control" is high praise for men Another man lives to get the number of occurrence of the spirit of the derailment is far lower than the number of physical derailed less, described as "life will find a few love", from the sense that the spirit of derailment is still relatively more men special circumstances, and this performance can not fall in love with two of his people - the spirit of the man often derailed his wife tired of the existing sense. Also suggested that a physical derailed, because of the body are often derailed not only because of momentary impulse restraint desires, no feelings at all, while the impulse they can be interpreted as a normal hormonal response, for people who love, faith, as long as there is love , the wrong committed on impulse and then what of it? Conversely, if you have lost love, even without the "impulse" error, then the two together will be meaningless.

As our standard of living improves, many men meet in the material, life is not too worried, pocket more money left for some time (this seems to control the number of female friends, men pocket the money without reason), As the ancients says: lust thinking of food and clothing, so all forms of derailment where they stand - at a meeting in the material life, but also a variety of desires that plagued the moment, no wonder the divorce rate economists from a region in determine the region's economy. Liang Dong remember the teacher had a radio show before, creative occupations are more likely to divorce (like writers, singers), because their job requires a spirit of innovation, and then again into the feeling that the spirit of innovation being, after years of devastation when love becomes static, if sealing, no passion at all the time, they will look for a new feeling, in order to achieve a kind of love life will always take the results at high tide (roughly meaning ). Yes, we human beings because there is a constant pursuit of a better life not only allows us to stand up, to create tools to create text, different from other animals, the formation of a relatively civilized society today, but the feelings have to properly suppress the blind pursuit of innovation and desire to try to enjoy the extraordinary stability of the emotional life, because you seek the next person is not necessarily your ideal lover, a love of men and women each are silly, when you really close to you The pursuit of the person, you might like the movie "Films are" big brothers in the same disappointment, and then recover the ex-wife. - No wonder the Buddha so stressed no desire, no matter how good you have a partner in the following, if you do not deal with a contented heart, you will lose will be had.

Then the men got derailed into what exactly? In reality, if only physical derailed, then get only momentary stimulation, mental derailment may have to get "high" number, obtained from the spirit of the derailment should be a close to the love of sweet, just more panic, more Some guilt only. When the pursuit of happiness is the moral boundaries of the treaty, we used to call it lust, but to this indulgence gained pleasure in hurting a complete marriage structure and a loyal companion on the even more selfish, more stupid.

Then the derailment of marriage also a need to maintain it? Some people think that this should first distinguish the derailment is in front of said induced derailment derailment or initiative. Relatively speaking, as induced derailment has a "spur of the moment" and Xing Zhi existence or can be to them as "victims", and so it easily accessible to forgive partner, Dan, said that in fact this is not worthy of forgiveness or a derailment on the Bi Yao Excuse me, treat emotional problems that we should be more rational. I think that should be maintained or abandoned as our criterion should be: 1. He admitted the mistake and correct it; 2. You love him does he not suffer the extent of time he hurt you again. If the answer is yes, then efforts to maintain this bar called the fate of the marriage, to be more suited to their marriage do not have to find a new partner, can also be modified by the previous marriage, do whatever efforts, of course, this also depends on how much you love him, maybe that depends on his efforts also worthwhile to you to pay.

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Boudoir ancient women has always been closed space, this isolated with their contact with the outside world. Modern life seems to cancel the boudoir of the boundaries, women are already free activities in the social space among the tassels and hangings, screens and walls will no longer be cut off from them with the outside world to the obstacles, however, whether in reality among women in their psychological or consciousness, we can always see the existence of this boudoir and projection.

Boudoir, is can be seen as symbols of women's psychological reality, it agreed a personal space, like women's bodies tend to be closed as the same time sensitive information in the outside world, it is an inherent mystery of the female prototype space. Among them, the women to be self-Definition, the world inside and outside can be separated, to be realistic perspective, imagination can be extended.

Secret: Ancient bedroom features entertainment fun life (Photos)
Poetry in the twelfth lunar month of January for braving the snow, cold, warm the ladies gather in the hall, the clothing side Pengcha, clothing side view of the snow, reciting poetry and music companion when clothes mink fur hat, braving the snow and carry, come to add to the fun.
Secret: Ancient bedroom features entertainment fun life (Photos)
Mei cold night in February to find the first month, the Lantern Night, brightly colored overflow, silver plate on like the plum blossom, they go hand in hand tour the palace ladies.
Secret: Ancient bedroom features entertainment fun life (Photos)
March, leisure room of games.
Secret: Ancient bedroom features entertainment fun life (Photos)
Qu Chi Dang April 1000 Spring is coming, ladies out of the boudoir, in the meadows to play tour accompanied by Huan, willow dancing in the spring, Heng Fa Chuen Ying YU Chun, swing,, ladies Flor light, such as Yan.
Secret: Ancient bedroom features entertainment fun life (Photos)
May Yun Hua Li Rong Chun Doo season, Colorful, fragrant garden. Their girl beautiful woman gathered in the pre-trial of flowers, youth Charm, Exquisite Beauty.
Secret: Ancient bedroom features entertainment fun life (Photos)
June Pond Pavilion watch fish in mid-summer hot weather. Pool bamboo rustle sounds, should be, and the cool breeze blowing, the palace ladies gather to watch fish in the pond Tingnei transition leisure time.
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July lotus pond lotus breeze blow swept lake, lotus incense blowing, beautiful woman rafting collection party palace, palace life for the rigid fraction added to the fun.
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August Tung Yin Qi Qiao July seventh day it is depicted here in the Lady "QiQiao" scenes, Tanabata night, the women to bowl of water placed in the courtyard, then a bunch of needles which dissipate into the atmosphere, people watch the water rush presentation patterns.
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Hainan and Taiwan to celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival in September described the night, the ladies of the high-profile gathering, poetry and moon scene.
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October painted a golden autumn Double Ninth palace ladies admire chrysanthemums of scenes in October. In traditional Chinese culture, the chrysanthemum is a noble, noble symbol, also gives good fortune, long life meaning.
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Early winter peak in November Wenge embroidery, in the genial sunshine, carefully embroidered ladies of the palace and enjoy their favorite patterns.
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Bo Gu round the fire in December when the entry goes on, the more cold weather. This painting depicts the Chinese house, the fireplace next to the ladies of leisure at home together, enjoy the old homes and study the scene.

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